Friday, May 29, 2009
Wednesday, May 27, 2009
Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus
We mistakenly assume that if our partners love us, they will react and behave in certain ways - the ways we react and behave when we love someone.
When men and women are able to respect and acccept their differences then love has a change to blossom.
A man's sense is defined through his ability to achieve results. But a woman's sense is defined through her feelings and the quality of her relationships.
To offer a man unsolicited advise is to presume that he doesn't know what to do or that he can't do it on his own.
Generally, when woman offer unsolicited advise or tries to "help" a man, she has no idea of how critical and unloving she may sound to him.
Many times a woman just wants to share her feelings about her day, and a man, thinking he is helping, interrupts her by offering a steady flow of solutions to her problems.
When our partner resist us it is probably because we have made a mistake in our timing or approach.
A man wants to make improvements when he feels he is approached as the solution to a problem rather than as the problem itself.
When men and women are able to respect and acccept their differences then love has a change to blossom.
A man's sense is defined through his ability to achieve results. But a woman's sense is defined through her feelings and the quality of her relationships.
To offer a man unsolicited advise is to presume that he doesn't know what to do or that he can't do it on his own.
Generally, when woman offer unsolicited advise or tries to "help" a man, she has no idea of how critical and unloving she may sound to him.
Many times a woman just wants to share her feelings about her day, and a man, thinking he is helping, interrupts her by offering a steady flow of solutions to her problems.
When our partner resist us it is probably because we have made a mistake in our timing or approach.
A man wants to make improvements when he feels he is approached as the solution to a problem rather than as the problem itself.
Sunday, May 24, 2009
Balik kampung !
pada 12 May yg lalu merupakan hari yang paling menggembirakan bagi diriku..hari tersebut adalah hari aku pulang ke kampung halamanku di Kedah!!haha alhamdulillah aku dapat balik jugak setelah sekian lama aku x pulang ke sana since December'08..aku rindu sangat dkat semua family kat sana especially my mum! =)
hari berlalu sekejap aje...dah seminggu aku di rumah 'coz aku trpaksa balik ke shah alam semula untuk bekerja..sementara di sana aku sempat jugak jumpa my best friend..hehe dah lama sangat x jumpa dia, rasa2nyer dah 2 thn..hmm ;p so,kt0rang sempat lepak2 kat cafe kat jitra mall tu sambil sembang2,then tgk wayang..haha alhamdulillah aku dapat jugak jumpa..hehe thn lps xda jodoh nak jumpa dia kan..
so, before balik aku sempat bergambar dengan parents..hehe tp aku sedih sangat sekarang sebab tempat keje tu dah diambil orang laen..so aku x buat pape la juz duduk dalam rumah je tiap2 hari kat shah alam nie..=( entah la bila laA akan ada keje kosong sementara menunggu sem depan buka pada july coming s0on..k,la bubbye! ^_^
hari berlalu sekejap aje...dah seminggu aku di rumah 'coz aku trpaksa balik ke shah alam semula untuk bekerja..sementara di sana aku sempat jugak jumpa my best friend..hehe dah lama sangat x jumpa dia, rasa2nyer dah 2 thn..hmm ;p so,kt0rang sempat lepak2 kat cafe kat jitra mall tu sambil sembang2,then tgk wayang..haha alhamdulillah aku dapat jugak jumpa..hehe thn lps xda jodoh nak jumpa dia kan..
so, before balik aku sempat bergambar dengan parents..hehe tp aku sedih sangat sekarang sebab tempat keje tu dah diambil orang laen..so aku x buat pape la juz duduk dalam rumah je tiap2 hari kat shah alam nie..=( entah la bila laA akan ada keje kosong sementara menunggu sem depan buka pada july coming s0on..k,la bubbye! ^_^
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