Wednesday, May 27, 2009

Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus

We mistakenly assume that if our partners love us, they will react and behave in certain ways - the ways we react and behave when we love someone.

When men and women are able to respect and acccept their differences then love has a change to blossom.

A man's sense is defined through his ability to achieve results. But a woman's sense is defined through her feelings and the quality of her relationships.

To offer a man unsolicited advise is to presume that he doesn't know what to do or that he can't do it on his own.

Generally, when woman offer unsolicited advise or tries to "help" a man, she has no idea of how critical and unloving she may sound to him.

Many times a woman just wants to share her feelings about her day, and a man, thinking he is helping, interrupts her by offering a steady flow of solutions to her problems.

When our partner resist us it is probably because we have made a mistake in our timing or approach.

A man wants to make improvements when he feels he is approached as the solution to a problem rather than as the problem itself.

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